Chemistry not Science

so in the last 4 weeks i've heard a combination of 'she's not your type' or 'you're not her type' 5 times...at first it's ok to hear...cuz it's really no big deal...but the more you hear it...the more frustrating the word 'type' becomes...

this gets frustrating for two reasons...i'm not a hundred percent sure what my type is...but how would you know what it is better then me...let alone what my type would even be...secondly (and this is not said in any anger to those that have said it) isn't whether i'm someone else's type up to them...i've never heard it from the person just someone's opinion on it...and that one regardless of who it is hurts to hear

from talking to a friend of mine about this...we decided that even if you have a 'type'...there are definately allowances that get made...if i look at the people i've dated i wouldn't say all of them are the same...some would have similar characteristics...but not even close to being the same person...i just wish this type thing wouldn't be such a big part in romance...it seems to make it more science then chemistry